Be a Shiny Shady Tree

How excited people generally are on the starting of every year. Everyone mostly talk about their New year resolution and everything that will make their year more better than the previous one. Then it is observed that some resolutions become weak because people just stop trying them or forget their importance. So as the New Year is here make sure that whatever you have added on as your resolution you will not break it or let it fade  away with the passing days. Instead follow them and keep on reminding yourself of what you promised on the beginning of the year.

Be firm, consistent and coherent in your approach. Acquire positivity and treat people in a good way!

All of us are like guests in this world so be good with every person who crosses your life and be like a shiny shady tree under which everyone like to rest and sit.

The Logic of Mind versus The Echo of Heart

Life keeps on moving. The crucial moment in life arises when one tries to stuck in past and forgets his or her present or future. Things seem falling apart from one another. Life gives pain when once an echo of past confronts the heart. “How was I such a fool at that time?”. Once this sound evokes the chunks of bitter past surrounds the mind and heart. Acceptance and denial struggles between mind and heart. Who should we let to win the mind filled with logics or the heart filled with footprints of memories?

The above mentioned query is the most difficult one. It’s very difficult to equate the mind and heart.  When the heart filled with memories say “Yes” then the mind says that “Don’t be a Fool again”. Mind says learn from your mistakes while heart says follow your intuitions. How strong the battle becomes to whom to listen: mind or heart. Mind recalls experience while heart reminds to believe in your intuition.

Spending time to think, think and rethink is an ongoing process and in this process at times the heart wins and at times the mind wins. Now let’s not just reserve the mind vs heart methodology restricted to one’s inner mind. External world and people are behind the chaos of mind and heart battle. People give experiences in the form of memories or pains. It’s for sure that no one wants to confront a person who has spoiled your life for their own greed but one should be thankful to them for teaching a lifetime lesson. Never erode the believe in yourself because everything in life is meant to happen for a reason.

Life travelers but never ever try to find the reason that “Why it happened to me” for example thinking why some xyz person did this and that with you!

 Show patience, do recall but never stuck in it and in fact move on as it is Life which has to keep moving on its journey in both sunny and rainy days!

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We all are humans, we live, stay and eventually go away!

Where to go?

The trying motto is useless unless one is not provided a fair pace or ground to move on for attaining the goals. It is a suffering and setback for those who are trying but due to lack of choices or chances they move backwards instead of a forward step. Attaining of goals is an ambition but at the same time it becomes a fancy for those who are unable to find the road which directs them towards their destination.

Living

Living is an art. Seconds are passing and still we cannot figure out what is well for us and what is not. We blame the Creator of the World for our misfortunes. We cry and regret. Still we never understand life is a coin and it has two sides heads and tails. Those two tails are actually sadness and happiness. Life's days will keep on tossing the coin and will bring in sadness or happiness.

The best thing about LIFE is that it is never stagnant rather it keeps on changing. A sad moment will not always remain rather it will make a room for a better time. Cries will not just remain rather it will leave so that the lips can smile.

Live with wisdom so that CRIES do not turn into regrets. Stretch your arms and keep on praying so that life can add a better page to your lives.

Move on in life

Standing at a stagnant place and waiting for the time to pass. Thinking in mind that the time SHOULD change and then make the circumstances acceptable for you. Hours pass by, a day turns into night, the day passes and you wait for the next day to undergo the same process of waiting. Each day starts with the same hope of hoping that the time will change for better. Counting the passing days and they turn into months. Later the months starts turning into years. Your wandering mind signifies that it is getting too late and you blame the circumstances for hindering your ways.

When once it is been murmured that “it has been too late” by the pondering heart then the ray of hope starts dimming and eventually your struggle starts slowing down due to the lowness started in you. You feel tired at every step and look back through the times you have passed by. At this point self evaluation starts and this stems to giving birth to regrets. You start claiming that “ I have walked through miles but still I have never been an achiever of my dreams throughout my life”. Believe! That this is the point where you start loosing insight of your dreams. You start un-noticing little charms and glories which you have achieved in the journey of your struggle. Instead of counting the stars you might have achieved you start counting the things you lost. This is the step when you block your vision from positivity and even a little tiny loss (for example even missing a bus) triggers the previous mishaps. You become more tired and devastated. You start loosing the essence and joy of little things once you loved. Everything seems to be the same and steady. The only moving thing that seems to you are your apparent failures and setbacks.

If somebody is caught up in this scenario then cracks in self belief occur. You worry more anticipating what will be next for you. Even though if something good happens you do not cherish it still you remain dissatisfied.

However, the most important thing that you miss at that time is the cherish of your own existence. You tend to forget that it is ultimately YOU who is striving and you forget to buck up yourself. You forget to appreciate your little gains and you do not appreciate the fact that you are struggling for something worthy. You are far more better than those who just sit and watch for their magical FATE to work such people do not strive but only idly wait and do not use their capabilities. At this point instead of counting your failures in the way of struggle you need to think about the pleasure of utilizing your own capabilities for the accomplishment of your goals. Even though you may fail at times but you will gain an experience and that experience will assist you in mapping out more effective ways and prospects.

Believe that it is you who can change your own self for better first and then see the magic that you can spread around you. Do not see your setbacks as a defeat rather take them as a step moving towards the series towards the attainment of your dreams. Do not let the colors of your dreams fade away. From today onwards do not count your setbacks but start counting the things you have achieved in the miles. Count the smiles, the excitement and pleasure of trying something new, exploring ways and strategies for making something happen according to your own choice and lots more. Satisfaction of struggling in itself is far more pleasing than those who never try to make things happen better. Change yourself and then you will see things automatically changing for better. Do not wait for circumstances to be better first rather change yourself for better and see the magic. All of us have a world of our own inside us. Make your inner world happy and then you will see the outside world optimistic too. Keep moving on in life and never stop with regrets. Never stop believing in yourself and make sure that you move on in life bucking up yourself at every step. Do not count on others or the circumstances to carve ways for you but make your own ways with a firm believe in yourself. Do not forget to move on in life by forgetting setbacks and believing in yourself. Do not wait for the circumstances or people to change but change your self for betterment and then the things will automatically seem to be brighter and better.

True friends do not need words

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People who claim to be with you with just words are the ones who will vanish away quickly when circumstances will ask them to prove their words. Remember true friends will not make you feel special at one time through words and knock you down the other moment through their actions. True friends will use their actions to show their love and care. They will never hide their faces behind masks of empty words. So keep an eye to differentiate between those who say and those who actually do it for you. Love those who add a meaning to your life through their actions rather than filling you with their empty words. 

Demonstration of comparison

A lot of times people practice the art of comparing themselves with others. Comparing yourself with others for betterment is not harmful but when comparing with jealousy is indeed an unhealthy activity.

In the unhealthy comparison, one is always trying to let down the other person whenever possible and it is a very bitter act. It also brings in grudges and it revolves negative vibes even through gestures and body language.

So do comparison for bringing a better change in you rather than engaging in the poor status of jealousy, which surpass the nobility of the soul and make you to act in an absurd manner. Be yourself and always respect lives around you :)

How to keep the relationships work?o

Locked paths are not letting people breath. Scarce and narrowness is tightening the soul. Dissatisfaction occurs because of been deprived from every pinch of life.  Its not easy to be suffocated at every direction and it’s not digestible to be negated at every doorstep. Hindrances block the vision and the thirsty mind steps on thorns.

The most shocking tragedy is to be negated by your own relations and no matter how hard one try to keep binding his soul with the loved ones go unnoticed. Hated by your so-called relations feel like an imposed curse and that curse gives pain at every step. Every new stance of been deprived refreshes the previous steps of been ignored. The ignored person starts stumbling and a change in belief occurs. Always been stabbed makes the self-esteem shake. It is not so easy to let go and keep the drowning body composed.

Been cheated and negated gives injuries. Such injuries cannot be seen in the form of bruises but they burn the soul and eradicates smile from the lips. The sense of been isolated is harsh and bitter. Relations, which are generally entitled to bring shelter and support when, start giving pains seem to loose their spark.

Spark and passion is very important in any sort of relationship for example in a mother/daughter relationship the most essential spark is trust and respect. Imagine if that spark of trust and respect goes away then what is left? Definitely, in the absence of spark an empty relationship exists. Emptiness spoils your beliefs and you start doubting relationships.

What does life depicts to be when one has no other along the side to support and guide? It is too hard to travel all alone under the hot sun and to have nobody along your side. Being unsupported all the time and starving for care continues. Continuation of the thirst of care when unattained gives disappointment and isolation.

The outcome of an empty relationship is no doubt useless. Trying hard to revive such relationship is fruitless unless the disturbing personnel realize his/her due role that has to be played to cultivate the relationship. Relationships exist in collaboration and not in isolation. To keep moving the relationship spark has to grow and exist.  

In some instances wait is the best key to give the relationships a chance to flourish. If on the other hand wait gives no good then it inflicts pain and agony.

In short relationships become at times complex and at that time, they cannot be understood or misunderstood. Time also proves to be an important factor; people are the important determinant and circumstance the vital catalyst. Whatever happens they affect the lives and living. Try to make relationships work whether one is a father, mother, child, brother, sister, husband or wife. Focus on every knot of the relationship and try to flourish it with love and care. No matter how times and circumstances turn out to be but remain intact with the loved ones. Even if one hasn’t been doing that get up right now and go to your closed one to tell how much you are thankful for the relationship that you have shared. Have a blessed life and keep moving as if you have not fallen J

No Choice

A game of no choices is always in command. Most of the people in different corners of the world claim, in fact admit that if someone is talented then that talent will automatically make its way. This statement proves to be cruel when the stems of talent eradicates before truly commencing on. This time do not narrate that cruelty is totally an outcome of acts unrequited while neglecting the mainstream efforts.

How many numerous times you have been told that what you truly desire becomes your fate. False! Actually what is written in your fate, ah at the end becomes your destiny and you have no other choice to accept it as your ultimate purpose and desire. In short you have to compromise, the most applicable word.

Ask the wounded struggled hearts, what they strived and what they ended up with? GAME! GAME and nothing else it is….you learn to smile with tears in eyes and you learn to strive in any enforced isle.

MY FRIEND THAT IS HOW WE ALL HAVE TO LIVE AND STILL HAVE TO SMILE.

MAY EVERYONE’S WISHES COME TRUE AND THEIR TALENTS GETS THE VISION

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Colorful Lies:)

Many times, you hear lies in sugar coated manner.

Want to know those lies?

Yes

Are you sure? Say louder

Yessssssssssssss

Oh! I am doing over acting of being over dramatic. Anyway leave it. Finally lets plunge in the salty lies.

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Lets start

hmmmmmmmmmmmmmm excited??????????????????????

yeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeeaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaaahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh

Lights Camera Action…………………………………………………..

ON

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Scene: 1

 Many times, you see people screaming: “believe me! I am telling the truth”. However, in the heart whispering to himself “I know I am the master of lying”.

Scene: 2

Outwardly appearing that I am the sincerest but in the heart thinking “oh! This person is so easy to make fool”.

Scene: 3

Showing gestures that “I really respect you” but in the heart giggling, “Hey get lost soon”

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Portraying to be very happy for one’s success but in the heart mourning, “how can he excel from me and be better”.

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 Outwardly saying “if you have any problems then do contact me” but when the person is actual in a miserable condition and he/she contacts him, then he says to himself“what the hell!”

Misty fog and a cup of coffee

Lets have a smile and lets celebrate the fragrance of joy. Winter is here and it just feels like a blessing lying in the blanket in the evening  and visualizing the day that has sufficiently passed. Although you are semi sleepy but still you try to remain awake and go through the flashback mode. How was the day passed? Some events without any reason make you smile while some of the slightest blunders make you feel a bit conscious.

Colors, changes, memories, realizations and commitments go hand in hand. You view everything at times in serenity and at times you scan something with just your gut feelings. What you do and what you have seems to be different. You do what you want but you have that is in your fate. But yes hard work is also very important.  

Having a mug of tea or coffee and sitting in the misty fog, you generally try to sum up your life experiences. You recollect and analyze. You think and rethink. It cannot be labeled strictly as self evaluation but rather it is a kind of blended methodology of self actualization. So get pleasure from this moment, do not forget to enjoy each sip of your tea or coffee before it gets cold, and don’t forget to put the satisfaction dip in the misty fog. 

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The Limited World!

The prevalent ugliness, which shows a devastated heart.

A scream without an utterance invoke and a hope without submission.

A dream spoken through tears and a heart by its incomplete act is always broken.

An extreme pain in surrender and laughter sung in isolation.

These omens occur in every step been broken!

Not necessary that in return you get fulfillment and contentment because at the end of the day there is an awaiting doom gripping the core of every passed hour in rot. You are been told by the facial expressions of the uncontrollables that you are their slaves and this is how the lines of concrete are been developed by the hegemony of a few strong people. Creativity and fantasy is so unlimited yet the world in which we live is so limited.

Hurt……………

Getting too busy in the walk of days. Not having time to express your own passion. At times it seems like you are forgetting the existence of your own while running around the corners of the world!

It seems like you are playing a game and casting your utmost trick at every step for your own survival. At every surrendering mode you try to revive your soul and try to make things work by your fate spell.

How long can someone continue like that? When all the ships of your hope and passion have been wrecked at the middle of a deadly storm and you are just trying to recollect the scattered burning flames in your hands when you are sure that you might be hurt…………..

Dreams and Fairy Tales

You grow up with a lot of beliefs in childhood. You think when you’ll grow up you will change the world and all the things that you have planned will happen as you decided. In childhood you think that the world will be on your terms and conditions. Slowly and gradually as you start getting old and younger, you make a lot of amendments in the terms and conditions. At every change you justify yourself why you are doing that?

Your rule book starts changing at every step. At every step you learn something new. At times you have to let go away certain things that you once truly admired and it gives you a lot of pain. Giving away your dreams that at times may seem absurd to the world makes you sad. Those passions and desires that you once set in your eyes were a constant support to yourself and they always painted a positivity in yourself. Realizing one day that your childhood dreams were only a fairy tale gives you pain and at that day you confront the gritty of the real world in which we stay! But remember never ever break yourself with your vanishing dreams as there are thousands more dreams still waiting for you to give you support.

Just explore them, find them and love them.

Dreams and hopes they never die they just change their directions.

Nothing Stays Forever

Time passes, circumstances change, ways change, feelings change, people claiming that they will stay together forever rarely meet and distances stretch and hardly  you remain  acquainted. What one has in hands are the memories that can brighten up one’s day or can make someone sad. It is really difficult to find sincere people in your life who you can call your best friend. You might miss some people who were with you in the past but not today. You smile when you are passing down the street and you see some other friends cheering around like the way you also did in the past………………..then you say to yourself: “nothing stays forever”…….

Our Life's Dictionary

Totally aggravated and shocked on the experiences that occurs during the walk of life. At times you live in perfect isolation and at times you are in a crowd down the lane. What is life about? The simple answer could be that merely passing the days till that point when death knocks at your door step. Oh no! this is a very pessimistic point of view so lets put it around the other way- life is a series of events in which you are given multiple ways of doing constructive and useful tasks.

Let’s try to come across a unified definition of life. Although the definition of life varies from creature to creature. Well still let me try! Again I am trying to be superior but don’t matter because I have a typical human nature and this typical human nature provides me immense justification to begin. Again making one more assumption at the start that is:

Assumption: “I am a learner of life”

With this assumption I am starting of:

Start:

Question:

What is life?

Answer: According to me life is nothing but dreams, hopes and commitments. Life is a complex integrated golden chain which seems beautiful when it gives joys and cheers. Life seems to be a burden when it gives sorrows and grieves.

"A page from the diary of a silent heart"

Walking from the days of life I have seen the drowning boats and ever rising days of hope. At times you are left with nothing to surrender. You have got nothing to decorate your palm with a ray of hope. You are isolated, devastated and vacated in every footstep. What you have to do with this life? When it has nothing to give you? Still we force our every day to begin with a smile and to end with an encouraging silent hope.

At times how awful this situation is that you are completely broken but still you try to move on with every might. Believe me! It is very difficult. Indeed it is a deadly trauma in the road of life. Stress is strong and also the courage has minimized to buck you up. Again the question comes: how can you still go on? Should you muster up the guts to knock at the door of your scary heart? Should you let it go? Should you still try? Can you leave the uncontrolled circumstances to determine your painful fate? Should we let ourselves easily wash away in the highest thunderstorm of terror and gloom?

A New Change!!! - a mystery quest but yet to achieve -

I craved for a change in life. A change which could be just for me. Of course I wanted that change for a better reason. Reason- a well defined argument which has a lot of roots in the human mind. In the similar manner I had a chain of such arguments in my mind to nurture the justification for a change for better. Yes I am a human being. Now introducing myself I travel and you can call me a traveler of life. I travel a lot to explore my world of possibilities. I am a traveler of my dreams and yes! I dreamt about one thing and it fortunately happened to be true.

So now you would be wondering that what that dream would be?

Well! Well! Well! That dream was regarding my life and it always strike in my mind that yes! That would be my starting point if I accomplished it. So here I am today having the reality of accomplishment in my hands. Again like a typical human being still I have a continuous scrutiny going in my mind. I am still not happy of what I achieved. Why I cannot celebrate the victory? I was always so viciously dedicated in trying to achieve it. Why I cannot smile on my success? I still feel a space. I can still feel the emptiness there. Why cannot I be thankful? Is this only my nature or it is added up in all the humans’ community?

A state of dissatisfaction is always there no matter what you achieve. Still you feel that the magic which once made you smile for simple reasons is not there. Well! Not again I am being unthankful. Is this my destiny that I stay dissatisfied and always search for more optimistic and fruitful ends. If this is so than I am truly been hideous of all the positivity around me. I am looking for a change and not only a change but a new change. But the problem is that when the change is there than all of us have some other unlabelled lust which provokes in us which diminishes away the utility.

We should decide it today that instead of craving changes from the circumstances, why don’t we change ourselves first and infact bring a true glimpse of a new change everywhere. We should say yes that I will explore my world of possibilities but with a positive picture in my mind all the time. Circumstances may vary but optimism should stay consistent in me. In this way definitely all of us will be able to make a true positive change all around the world. Why just running after a materialistic new change? Why not crave for a quality oriented durable change within ourselves which will be truly called A NEW CHANGE!

Failure a sophisticated name of "EXPERIENCE"

It’s not easy in life to get what you desire for. It is not a matter of capabilities and it is not a matter of skills at times. At times your fate makes your dream ruin in the ocean of sadness. A person becomes sad crushed and devastated. This is life! Shattered dreams are the output of the most curious desires. Also it is not at times the hard work that decides your path it is the chance you get. Remember when there is merely a chance then there is no place for choices. You have to let go your choices and your dreams. Saying bye to dreams is not easy. It brings tears in one’s eyes. How painful it is to let a part of you to go. What is that part of you? That important part of ourselves is the dreams which we decorate in our eyes for so long.

How cunning act of the fate is to wash away our desires with the outcome of failure. A person is left out with the shattered and broken version of a gloomy heart which formerly desired a lot. How can one stay optimistic and contended in this scenario? How can one afford to smile when he has given away that dream which always once made him smile? Giving it a name of the law of nature we try to return to our normal aspects of life. We give a lot of justifications to our gloomy mind and heart that it was better for us to give up. We give that failure a sophisticated name of experience. The clever and crafty art of the human mind calling failure an enriched experience!!!

EVERY MORNING IS A NEW BEGINNING

Darkness prevailed hiding the lovely nature behind its black curtain. "I can't see the flowers mama, it seems that night has robbed them", innocent child inquired her mother with glowing eyes by looking through the window. The mother said: "It is getting late so go to sleep". Morning approached and the child while rubbing her eyes went to the window to solve the mystery of the robbed flowers and the query of the innocent child was replied through the serene nature awaiting and greeting through the other side of the window. The glittering flowers were visible in the morning and there glow was adding a new beginning and meaning to life which in actual terms were enhancing the vision of living. A message is transmitted with clarity that every morning with which humans are blessed is indeed a new beginning. Morning is a new beginning in fact a new opportunity to utilize as it complements every resident of life a new start to endeavor, a new beginning to explore and a new joy to celebrate.

A clear thought is running in my mind;

With endless possibilities for me to survive.

Why life seems to smile towards me;

In that way?

Maybe because wind of "a new beginning";

Is blowing everywhere!

Just living is not the art of survival but identifying the colors engraved in life are the true indicators of our presence and its essence starts from the blessed mornings that are popped out from life's magic box. So humans open your magic box and start your day as you are blessed as you have another day! Morning negates and denies giving up and gives a lesson about the perfect aspects of life. Morning gives the lesson that a new destiny and a new beginning has started as the night has gone, the flowers are glittering, the sun is shinning, life is smiling  then why stopping? Truly! It is a new beginning. Yes we are blessed as everyday brings us a new beginning which accompanies joy and a sense of accomplishment. This new beginning reflects a new journey, a new message, a new sense of happiness. Mornings which are beginnings formulate hopes and power for living dreams.

What needs to be done now? Should we ignore these beginnings and remain stagnant? Perhaps we have a very clear answer and that is "No" to ignorance and we should add meaning by starting our every morning as a new beginning. Humans you have a key to open the door of happiness. Get up, look out of your window and hear the whisper of life that indicates smile and asking us to start our destiny as morning is truly a new beginning that promises a new destiny ahead so keep going and never stop believing!

I will shine as I have life

I will try as I have life

Live life as life is there

Don't give up;

As we have got another day to praise.