One of the most fundamental question is that how people change with the changing circumstances? People change in fact they evolve according to the changing circumstances. Life is a catalyst of change and humans adapt or even discard their emotions in order to adjust with the changes.
A person changes everyday from changing their words, thoughts and opinions. Yet true people stay stable no matter even if the circumstances change and they will be always there for you.
So those people who change with you according to time understand that they are masters of only taking them-self as a priority. They take rest as for granted.Throw them away they are rolling stones who keep on changing their paths for their own gain.
While the true people will stay the same with you no matter how drastically everything changes but their feelings will never change for you. If you find such people value them and cherish them. They are gems.
Monday, July 18, 2016
Friday, July 15, 2016
Seasoned People
Life is so unpredictable. Even when you are thinking that things are going your way then suddenly a twist comes. The twist turns your life upside down but trust me how much you try things do not get better. You start becoming anxious that how things will improve and you try everything to make things work. It is not that the circumstances have changed but people have changed.
Changing colors of people is the most devastating thing. You try every bit to make things work with the changed person but trust me it will never work. Nothing will work despite of your endless efforts because the person for whom you are struggling is not actually there for you. All struggles and efforts will start to break away in front of your eyes and you can't do anything about that. People who have changed like a season will not become the same person who they pretended to be previously. Such people are manipulators and they only attached there temporary color when you were there need. They never equally invested emotionally but they were partially present with you according to their own selfish desires.
Whenever you find yourself with people who show up when you fit there needs are not genuine people. Though it hurts but still you should know when to put an end to it and should gracefully walk away. If you will not walk away then they will keep on grinding you according to the suitability of their own selfish needs. You were never important for them rather you were a temporary convenience for them. Learn to let go such people as despite of giving them so many chances they will never change. Take care of your own feelings and do not let anyone exploit them as it's you yourself important rather than letting yourself grind and suffocate with such colorless seasoned people. Your life will be much better without them.
Changing colors of people is the most devastating thing. You try every bit to make things work with the changed person but trust me it will never work. Nothing will work despite of your endless efforts because the person for whom you are struggling is not actually there for you. All struggles and efforts will start to break away in front of your eyes and you can't do anything about that. People who have changed like a season will not become the same person who they pretended to be previously. Such people are manipulators and they only attached there temporary color when you were there need. They never equally invested emotionally but they were partially present with you according to their own selfish desires.
Whenever you find yourself with people who show up when you fit there needs are not genuine people. Though it hurts but still you should know when to put an end to it and should gracefully walk away. If you will not walk away then they will keep on grinding you according to the suitability of their own selfish needs. You were never important for them rather you were a temporary convenience for them. Learn to let go such people as despite of giving them so many chances they will never change. Take care of your own feelings and do not let anyone exploit them as it's you yourself important rather than letting yourself grind and suffocate with such colorless seasoned people. Your life will be much better without them.
Monday, December 28, 2015
Hope and Wait
Life is on a constant move. We as the travelers of life has to constantly wander but walking on the same paths loose hope. Looking and waiting is the most painful step in the journey of life. Life seems to be chained when you know that you can't move forward and all you have is keep on thinking about the same past chapters.
No body wants to dwell in the place where there is no choice and you have to stay in the same place with the sensation of wait that what will happen next.Nothing can be more painful than this phase when hope diminishes with every passing day but still you don't want to give up your hope altogether. Hope and wait is the most painful form of a person's life experience.
No body wants to dwell in the place where there is no choice and you have to stay in the same place with the sensation of wait that what will happen next.Nothing can be more painful than this phase when hope diminishes with every passing day but still you don't want to give up your hope altogether. Hope and wait is the most painful form of a person's life experience.
Tuesday, November 10, 2015
Getting What We Deserve
Mot painful thing for any person is to live with dead dreams. When dreams die it is not easy. It is not easy to accumulate the broken pieces of wishes and desires. Life is painful and its experiences keep on shaping our thoughts. We often hear life is all about change but change at every step is not easy.
It is not easy at all to smile when things in your life are wrong. It is not easy to show the world you are composed when parts of your soul are wounded. In fact it is not easy to let go of a thing that you always wanted and adjusting with what YOU never though of. It feels awful to be asked "how are you?" and every time like a tradition you have to make a false confession that "Yes I am alright".
Life can be much better if we are cared and have a true helping hand. Otherwise many of painful souls drown in misery when they have no one by their side. It is not easy to live a life that has no love to offer. May we all find the ones we truly deserve so that lives can be brightened.
It is not easy at all to smile when things in your life are wrong. It is not easy to show the world you are composed when parts of your soul are wounded. In fact it is not easy to let go of a thing that you always wanted and adjusting with what YOU never though of. It feels awful to be asked "how are you?" and every time like a tradition you have to make a false confession that "Yes I am alright".
Life can be much better if we are cared and have a true helping hand. Otherwise many of painful souls drown in misery when they have no one by their side. It is not easy to live a life that has no love to offer. May we all find the ones we truly deserve so that lives can be brightened.
Monday, June 29, 2015
Keep Trying
Alot can be done every second, every minute, every hour, every day, every month, every year till lifetime. All is needed a TRY. If you will not try how can you know your unlimited possibilities and the infinite sunshine that exists in you. All you need is a belief. A belief to try and a belief that you can try no matter in what process of life you exist. We all exist to shine and make our ways through the darkest chapters of life. We all LIVE but at times we forget about our existence. So keep moving, never give up and keep trying.
5 simple tips to be Happy
Happiness is all locked within a person's soul. All you need to do is to unlock the key of happiness so that your soul can be nourished with contentment. Today I will be talking about some really SIMPLE yet effective happiness reviving tips.
Here we go:
1. Start your day with a SMILE.
2. Schedule your day so that you can save time to do things that you love.
3. Go to a park and observe the nature.
4. Think of your beautiful childhood memory.
5. Breathe deeply, close your eyes and feel that your inside is sparkling with lights of JOY.
Have a happy fun filled day brightened up with happiness.
Here we go:
1. Start your day with a SMILE.
2. Schedule your day so that you can save time to do things that you love.
3. Go to a park and observe the nature.
4. Think of your beautiful childhood memory.
5. Breathe deeply, close your eyes and feel that your inside is sparkling with lights of JOY.
Have a happy fun filled day brightened up with happiness.
Sunday, June 28, 2015
Inviting Host Writers for the Blog
Notebook-Unsorted Pages in Life is operational since the last 10 years. This blog has gone through various changes and it has been influencing the lives of numerous readers all across the globe who extract something really meaningful, motivational and inspiring. Now here is a time to hear what other writers has to say something about their experiences of life.
I very humbly invite some host writers to share their excellent piece of writing on my blog.
Criteria: The writing should pertain to some aspect of life and how it affected your motivation. It should be a source of inspiring and should reflect some glimpse of HOPE
Word Limit: The blog post should not exceed 500 words
Young and Struggling writers are most welcome to participate...
The host author will be notified through email upon selection of their writing.
Currently Notebook Unsorted Pages of Life is offering no prizes but there is a guarantee that once you are selected the article will be live and available for reading for the blogs readers all across the world.
- You can submit your article at : rains724@gmail.com
- In subject write the title of the writing
- Include a short biography of yourself with a picture
Its a WONDERFUL opportunity to for all bloggers and writers.
My Book is now out in online Amazon Store
Wan to keep my readers informed that my very first book is out there in the market. My book is live and the most important aspect book what it is concise and precise. People are so much busy in their everyday lives but this book is for everyone and while I was writing this book I kept in my mind PEOPLE so I came up with a book which requires 30 minutes reading.
I haven't disclosed not much about the book but I think its the right for my readers here on blog to know what it is about. I have composed some pieces of poetry which all of you can relate alot. There is a story of a young woman who has to undergo a painful transformation in her life leaving behind the most precious relationship in her life. Finally there is something very nourshing words for giving energy to your soul.
So the book offers something alot for everyone.
Good NEWS for my blog readers is that you can avail and claim your free copy at http://www.amazon.com/Shades-Life-under-disguised-vision-ebook/dp/B00ZXYI6CM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1435513926&sr=8-1&keywords=shades+of+life+bushra+Zia
THE FREE COPY OFFER IS JUST FOR 2 MORE DAYS....Don't miss this chance as then the regular price tag would apply for buying the book so get your free book NOW...
I haven't disclosed not much about the book but I think its the right for my readers here on blog to know what it is about. I have composed some pieces of poetry which all of you can relate alot. There is a story of a young woman who has to undergo a painful transformation in her life leaving behind the most precious relationship in her life. Finally there is something very nourshing words for giving energy to your soul.
So the book offers something alot for everyone.
Good NEWS for my blog readers is that you can avail and claim your free copy at http://www.amazon.com/Shades-Life-under-disguised-vision-ebook/dp/B00ZXYI6CM/ref=sr_1_1?ie=UTF8&qid=1435513926&sr=8-1&keywords=shades+of+life+bushra+Zia
THE FREE COPY OFFER IS JUST FOR 2 MORE DAYS....Don't miss this chance as then the regular price tag would apply for buying the book so get your free book NOW...
A Tribute to My Readers....All of you are the INSPIRATION for me to write!!!
Today instead of writing a traditional post I want to talk to you people and THANK YOU so much for coming and visiting my blog. It is really a nice and special feeling at times though I am not able to post but still I am amazed to see the stats that how regularly you guys visit my blog to know about any of my new writings.
I am so humbled and so much THANKFUL to all my readers for reading even a single line out of my blog. I hope you will keep on visiting and keep up my spirit high.
I am so humbled and so much THANKFUL to all my readers for reading even a single line out of my blog. I hope you will keep on visiting and keep up my spirit high.
Thursday, June 18, 2015
Education: a sarcastic trauma in Pakistan
Its truly an irony that in Pakistan lack of opportunities in the job market is eradicating the and crushing the dreams of the highly educated youth in the country. It doesn't matter even if you hold a higher education degree in contemporary subjects with a great score. It doesn't help as once the students with lots of dreams enter the job market they realize that their passions and ambitions are vague as no opportunity on pure merit basis will hold their hands.
I now suspect that there is always a raised slogan that we need educated citizens and education needs to be improvised. But why they want to increase education rate and literacy when the educated ones have to be crushed under the bizarre title of unemployment.
Distribution of thousands of resumes take place but the terrible truth is that even acquiring of job has to be done through the so called hypocrite term of references and networking. What are you giving to the society? Selling jobs under the cover with the credit card of references.
Its really an annoying element when you see so much educated and bright people living jobless due to the trauma of a spoiled job market where jobs are acquired as equivalent to transactions that take place in black market. Who see your skills, knowledge and learning? So do you think with this actual bitter scenario is it worthy to keep on increasing the stream of education and later let them drown in disappointment.
I just now smile sarcastically when I hear on TV or NEWS that the government is trying to raise the education rate. The education rate increase is offset later when the educated individuals face the bitter reality and then they are are patted on their backs with comments like its practical life.
Malala who has won a Nobel Prize is claimed to be a role model for enlightening education but I have a question is it really justice to open minds with the spark of education first and then letting them to burn under the disguise of UNEMPLOYMENT?
If any one has an answer do let me know!!!!
I now suspect that there is always a raised slogan that we need educated citizens and education needs to be improvised. But why they want to increase education rate and literacy when the educated ones have to be crushed under the bizarre title of unemployment.
Distribution of thousands of resumes take place but the terrible truth is that even acquiring of job has to be done through the so called hypocrite term of references and networking. What are you giving to the society? Selling jobs under the cover with the credit card of references.
Its really an annoying element when you see so much educated and bright people living jobless due to the trauma of a spoiled job market where jobs are acquired as equivalent to transactions that take place in black market. Who see your skills, knowledge and learning? So do you think with this actual bitter scenario is it worthy to keep on increasing the stream of education and later let them drown in disappointment.
I just now smile sarcastically when I hear on TV or NEWS that the government is trying to raise the education rate. The education rate increase is offset later when the educated individuals face the bitter reality and then they are are patted on their backs with comments like its practical life.
Malala who has won a Nobel Prize is claimed to be a role model for enlightening education but I have a question is it really justice to open minds with the spark of education first and then letting them to burn under the disguise of UNEMPLOYMENT?
If any one has an answer do let me know!!!!
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