Monday, March 2, 2015

Doom

Its a hard world to live but human emotions are a mechanism that keeps on changing. Sad and depressed along with the feeling that the future is totally uncertain makes the heart encircled in doom.

She is Re-Reading Memories........

Life is full of so many phases! No she would call them pages. The interesting thing is that each page is different and each page locks in itself some joys, some tears, some hopes, few dreams and a little flame of hope. What was last year? No what was last year of the last year? So many last years have passed and she is standing where she herself is surprised. At every step of her life she always used to ask what is next. So there was always something for her to involve in and cherish the journey of learning!!!

So where is she standing right now? Well the answer can be simple but that level of simplicity is very difficult for everyone to understand even for her own innocent soul. That’s fine she has completed the post-graduation too which can be the highest level of education for a female in her country. Looking back at the years what she used to be? An extremely passionate person holding a desire of acquiring knowledge and she enjoyed studies as anyone would be having a jar of Nutella but now her jar of Nutella (studies) have finished.

So now she is looking forward that what hold for her! She knows every step of life is gift from Allah but why is she feeling that she has left behind the most glorious pages of life. She rereads those pages often but she knows how long will she rereading the same pages which are memories now! So she has to be a little practical which she is not exactly and instead of looking backward have to look forward!!!

But when she looks forward why her eyes become covered with misty fog and the vision becomes blur as what in her mind has been conceptualized as her fairy tale future. Now stepping in the real practical world she will know what is there actually for her!!!

Even you know she questioned alot and curiosity is her passion and  even she has stopped questioning the society, sitting at home thinking about life and she like every girl next door started listening to sad songs but now she has to realize and start thinking that why is she trapping herself !!!



May everyone living a life that they deserve and be a source of inspiration for all others. Love yourself and love your live!!!


Tuesday, February 24, 2015

Why can't you get a job? Most hypocrite arena in the economy of Pakistan

Why it's like that? To follow your dreams is interrupted by the hypocrites. The thing is that when jobs are not granted on merit then how can it be expected that human resource in Pakistan will earn their livings with dignity. The government slogan remains high promising for raising education in the country but what is next when after acquiring education the professional degree becomes a piece of paper useless. The purpose in Pakistan should not be that number of graduates increases each year but something needs to be done to offer them a bright future.

The tragic number of so called reference jobs are increasing making impossible for people from less influential backgrounds to acquire jobs solely based on their talent. How unfortunate we as a nation is that talent goes unrewarded as all rewards goes to the certain part of the society. How can poverty curb and how can equality prevail when nothing is provided on merit.

It's a very disappointing fact when degrees of qualified youth just becomes a piece of paper as they cannot make them eligible to qualify in the gambling of job market where instead of talents opportunities are provided to the one with the highest reference power.



 

Thursday, January 1, 2015

Be a Shiny Shady Tree

How excited people generally are on the starting of every year. Everyone mostly talk about their New year resolution and everything that will make their year more better than the previous one. Then it is observed that some resolutions become weak because people just stop trying them or forget their importance. So as the New Year is here make sure that whatever you have added on as your resolution you will not break it or let it fade  away with the passing days. Instead follow them and keep on reminding yourself of what you promised on the beginning of the year.

Be firm, consistent and coherent in your approach. Acquire positivity and treat people in a good way!

All of us are like guests in this world so be good with every person who crosses your life and be like a shiny shady tree under which everyone like to rest and sit.


Wednesday, December 31, 2014

31st December: The Last Page of the Year 2014!!!

The sun of the year 2014 has descended and with that it brings an end to the year 2014. The year 2014 gave 365 days to live in. Some days were sunny, cloudy, stormy or rainy while passing through the journey of the year. Happiness and hardships were there but I hope that the NEW YEAR 2015 brings in more shinny bright radiant days to smile and nourish Life.

Let all the gloomy days of 2014 be added as a lesson on your life's diary and may it be a helping ladder in the upcoming year! May you meet more better people and acquire happiness. Let the unhealthy annoying relationships fade away for your betterment. Keep on dreaming and struggling!

Remember to be a reason for someone's smile as it is the greatest takeaway you hold in your pockets every time.

Cheese and HAPPY NEW YEAR!




Tuesday, August 26, 2014

Own Self

Close your eyes and visualize that life is a test. There is no option to go back but yes you can improve the present and future by taking your life towards a new direction. Do not tie yourself to the materialistic world but instead try to be a better human being so that for some reason you can be a source of smile for someone! If some helpless smiles by your any gesture or kind word your heart will stay contended and then you will see a magic and you will cross the threshold of kindness and eventually you will start believing in your OWN SELF!

http://www.tushar-agarwal.com/2013/10/being-alone.html

Thursday, August 21, 2014

The Logic of Mind versus The Echo of Heart

Life keeps on moving. The crucial moment in life arises when one tries to stuck in past and forgets his or her present or future. Things seem falling apart from one another. Life gives pain when once an echo of past confronts the heart. “How was I such a fool at that time?”. Once this sound evokes the chunks of bitter past surrounds the mind and heart. Acceptance and denial struggles between mind and heart. Who should we let to win the mind filled with logics or the heart filled with footprints of memories?

The above mentioned query is the most difficult one. It’s very difficult to equate the mind and heart.  When the heart filled with memories say “Yes” then the mind says that “Don’t be a Fool again”. Mind says learn from your mistakes while heart says follow your intuitions. How strong the battle becomes to whom to listen: mind or heart. Mind recalls experience while heart reminds to believe in your intuition.

Spending time to think, think and rethink is an ongoing process and in this process at times the heart wins and at times the mind wins. Now let’s not just reserve the mind vs heart methodology restricted to one’s inner mind. External world and people are behind the chaos of mind and heart battle. People give experiences in the form of memories or pains. It’s for sure that no one wants to confront a person who has spoiled your life for their own greed but one should be thankful to them for teaching a lifetime lesson. Never erode the believe in yourself because everything in life is meant to happen for a reason.

Life travelers but never ever try to find the reason that “Why it happened to me” for example thinking why some xyz person did this and that with you!

 Show patience, do recall but never stuck in it and in fact move on as it is Life which has to keep moving on its journey in both sunny and rainy days!

http://krisgleason.com/2012/12/13/harnessing-the-power-of-heart-and-mind/

We all are humans, we live, stay and eventually go away!


Sunday, July 6, 2014

Traveler of Life

What a world? Deceiving others and thinking about them as a fool. People with a sense of empathy are used and thrown away when not needed.  Even when empathetic people are thrown away then others think them as a useless stone rolling here and there in their straight path. How to live in such a world when everyone is playing you as a game. How can you smile when you Know someone likes it when you cry. Loud laughters on an agony and burns of others. Still discarded people like the most stubborn creatures display a smile on their faces to hide their tears. Life is going on like this and when the curtain unveils then YOU are able to see the inner dirt of the other's person's character and at that time its too late.

THUMBS UP FOR ALL THE PEOPLE WHO TEACH LESSONS BY SHOWING THEIR ACTUAL FACES!

Spreading negativity is an enjoyment and thrill. Such enjoyment is at the cost of the other's tears. Humans when will you WAKE UP and show your real self if YOU think you are so perfect. Why YOU are all the time acting and keep on changing your costumes and masks. Seasons are better as they can be counted on fingers but human colors are infinite. When You see one color of a HUMAN in one instant then in the very next instant they will again change their masks.

We are all travellers of life. We will come and go. Who will remember our names, faces and our bodily existence. What will remain intact in the world will be the slightest kindness or virtue of our character if we rendered while our small journey. Keep your lives boats small and simple so that you don't have to sort the crabs while in the search of a single shell.

STAY HAPPY AND TRY TO MAKE OTHERS HAPPY TOO.

Just be YOURSELF and don't change yourself for such PEOPLE who are the masters of misusing You. Never even dare to take a single step to fulfil others foolish desires.

BE YOURSELF IF THEY ARE COMFORTABLE THEY WILL ACCEPT YOU IF NOT LET THEM DROWN IN THE RIVER OF THEIR AGONY!


Stop encouraging and holding such temporary hands who will leave your hand when You think You will need them Most!

Be a good traveller of Life!





Thursday, June 26, 2014

Smiling...

Where to go?


The trying motto is useless unless one is not provided a fair pace or ground to move on for attaining the goals. It is a suffering and setback for those who are trying but due to lack of choices or chances they move backwards instead of a forward step. Attaining of goals is an ambition but at the same time it becomes a fancy for those who are unable to find the road which directs them towards their destination.