A note from ME

I have been somewhat kind of away from my blog and I have not actually communicated well with my readers. Today I am not typically going to write about human emotions but I will talk with you something which has really inspired me a few moments back.
Without any doubt its true we all are travelers of life but we as a human being has an obligation to fulfill. Helping others is the top most important obligation. Helping just humans is not the case but we should be helping everything around us. We need to help the thirsty birds, help someone in learning something, help the little kitten trying to survive the winter on open street, help the plants and care for them. Just we need to be there for others when there is no one for someone.

I think in our days of life we do a lot of things for ourselves but we need to spare a few moments to help and nurture others. Have a LOVELY life and take care of everyone around you.

Love

Bushra

Rare Symptom of Emotions

The WORLD in which we live is becoming a selfish tank. People which I call creatures are transforming into selfish beings having a whole set of materialistic priorities. Human emotions have vanished because the room is only open for the lusty desires. Feelings and emotions are just games played well and with every passing day such selfish creatures are excelling.
Humans are meant to be loved but why relationships are dying artificial death of selfish acts. We the NEW GENERATION do not strive to save relationships and our interactions are becoming more of a lusty trap. We will do only those acts which are beneficial for our own centered self.
Unfortunately true emotions have become a rare commodity which is now becoming difficult to find. It's easy to involve in a disposable relationship and then throw it away once you have had enough of it. It is the most dilemma that human interactions have no face value now as the value has been transferred to dead prioritize full of materialistic lust.
The Message is in this lusty environment when you encounter the rare symptoms of emotions then do nurture it instead of killing it with your lust and do cherish it.

Lust

It is alright to feel indifferent and at times it is OK to be upset. Life is a very different thing. Things and people keep on changing. People have made and considered life as a competition of attaining their lust.

Lust is everywhere. It is in relationships. It is among people and still we all think we are not selfish. We are selfish because for attaining our lust we drown every relationship or anything. Materialistic gains for so important that people want to run after them. People want to be friends with someone who can fulfill only their social needs. Couples are breaking away because there is absence of true love. Lust has replaced love. Love is unconditional and free but in this world these days we have made love a number. We want to be with someone when we need them, when it is convenient for us. How lusty we all have become.

Lust has replaced almost every human emotion. Emotions have faded away all we are left with only our physical appearances. Nobody is willing to give love for free but everyone wants to make a transaction which suits them. Unfortunately all emotions have been sold and what we are left with is only broken promises and worse human relationships.

Calculative People

The truth about people that you love the most will eventually make you cry harder. Similarly trusting someone the most will leave you into despair. It is the truth about this World we always get hurt from the place from where we expect the most.

Life is spontaneous but the people who are living it are very calculative. Their intentions and gestures are directed by their only self beneficial self interest. Never ever put such person the first priority in your life who is not even willing to take a few simple steps for you. By the end of the day they are they want to be merely with you when it is their convenience and it always about them not about the other person.

Live your life with those people who are not only truthful in front of you but they are always true with you in whatever circumstances. Don't ask for affection if they are not willing to give it for free. Just know when it is the time to shut such people out of your life. Initially letting go will hurt because it was only you who was sincere while the other one was always busy far away from you.

Gems and Stones

One of the most fundamental question is that how people change with the changing circumstances? People change in fact they evolve according to the changing circumstances. Life is a catalyst of change and humans adapt or even discard their emotions in order to adjust with the changes.

A person changes everyday from changing their words, thoughts and opinions. Yet true people stay stable no matter even if the circumstances change and they will be always there for you.

So those people who change with you according to time understand that they are masters of only taking them-self as a priority. They take rest as for granted.Throw them away they are rolling stones who keep on changing their paths for their own gain.

While the true people will stay the same with you no matter how drastically everything changes but their feelings will never change for you. If you find such people value them and cherish them. They are gems.

Seasoned People

Life is so unpredictable. Even when you are thinking that things are going your way then suddenly a twist comes. The twist turns your life upside down but trust me how much you try things do not get better. You start becoming anxious that how things will improve and you try everything to make things work. It is not that the circumstances have changed but people have changed.

Changing colors of people is the most devastating thing. You try every bit to make things work with the changed person but trust me it will never work. Nothing will work despite of your endless efforts because the person for whom you are struggling is not actually there for you. All struggles and efforts will start to break away in front of your eyes and you can't do anything about that. People who have changed like a season will not become the same person who they pretended to be previously. Such people are manipulators and they only attached there temporary color when you were there need. They never equally invested emotionally but they were partially present with you according to their own selfish desires.

Whenever you find yourself with people who show up when you fit there needs are not genuine people. Though it hurts but still you should know when to put an end to it and should gracefully walk away. If you will not walk away then they will keep on grinding you according to the suitability of their own selfish needs. You were never important for them rather you were a temporary convenience for them. Learn to let go such people as despite of giving them so many chances they will never change. Take care of your own feelings and do not let anyone exploit them as it's you yourself important rather than letting yourself grind and suffocate with such colorless seasoned people. Your life will be much better without them.

Hope and Wait

Life is on a constant move. We as the travelers of life has to constantly wander but walking on the same paths loose hope. Looking and waiting is the most painful step in the journey of life. Life seems to be chained when you know that you can't move forward and all you have is keep on thinking about the same past chapters.

No body wants to dwell in the place where there is no choice and you have to stay in the same place with the sensation of wait that what will happen next.Nothing can be more painful than this phase when hope diminishes with every passing day but still you don't want to give up your hope altogether. Hope and wait is the most painful form of a person's life experience.

Getting What We Deserve

Mot painful thing for any person is to live with dead dreams. When dreams die it is not easy. It is not easy to accumulate the broken pieces of wishes and desires. Life is painful and its experiences keep on shaping our thoughts. We often hear life is all about change but change at every step is not easy.

It is not easy at all to smile when things in your life are wrong. It is not easy to show the world you are composed when parts of your soul are wounded. In fact it is not easy to let go of a thing that you always wanted and adjusting with what YOU never though of. It feels awful to be asked "how are you?" and every time like a tradition you have to make a false confession that "Yes I am alright".

Life can be much better if we are cared and have a true helping hand. Otherwise many of painful souls drown in misery when they have no one by their side. It is not easy to live a life that has no love to offer. May we all find the ones we truly deserve so that lives can be brightened.

Keep Trying

Alot can be done every second, every minute, every hour, every day, every month, every year till lifetime. All is needed a TRY. If you will not try how can you know your unlimited possibilities and the infinite sunshine that exists in you. All you need is a belief. A belief to try and a belief that you can try no matter in what process of life you exist. We all exist to shine and make our ways through the darkest chapters of life. We all LIVE but at times we forget about our existence. So keep moving, never give up and keep trying.

5 simple tips to be Happy

Happiness is all locked within a person's soul. All you need to do is to unlock the key of happiness so that your soul can be nourished with contentment. Today I will be talking about some really SIMPLE yet effective happiness reviving tips.

Here we go:

1. Start your day with a SMILE.

2. Schedule your day so that you can save time to do things that you love.

3. Go to a park and observe the nature.

4. Think of your beautiful childhood memory.

5. Breathe deeply, close your eyes and feel that your inside is sparkling with lights of JOY.

Have a happy fun filled day brightened up with happiness.

Inviting Host Writers for the Blog

Notebook-Unsorted Pages in Life is operational since the last 10 years. This blog has gone through various changes and it has been influencing the lives of numerous readers all across the globe who extract something really meaningful, motivational and inspiring. Now here is a time to hear what other writers has to say something about their experiences of life.

I very humbly invite some host writers to share their excellent piece of writing on my blog.

Criteria: The writing should pertain to some aspect of life and how it affected your motivation. It should be a source of inspiring and should reflect some glimpse of HOPE

Word Limit: The blog post should not exceed 500 words

Fee and Costs: There is no fee or cost for the writer to incur .

Young and Struggling writers are most welcome to participate...

The host author will be notified through email upon selection of their writing.

Currently Notebook Unsorted Pages of Life is offering no prizes but there is a guarantee that once you are selected the article will be live and available for reading for the blogs readers all across the world.

• You can submit your article at : rains724@gmail.com
• In subject write the title of the writing
• Include a short biography of yourself with a picture

Its a WONDERFUL opportunity to for all bloggers and writers.

My Book is now out in online Amazon Store

Wan to keep my readers informed that my very first book is out there in the market. My book is live and the most important aspect book what it is concise and precise. People are so much busy in their everyday lives but this book is for everyone and while I was writing this book I kept in my mind PEOPLE so I came up with a book which requires 30 minutes reading.

I haven't disclosed not much about the book but I think its the right for my readers here on blog to know what it is about. I have composed some pieces of poetry which all of you can relate alot. There is a story of a young woman who has to undergo a painful transformation in her life leaving behind the most precious relationship in her life. Finally there is something very nourshing words for giving energy to your soul.

So the book offers something alot for everyone.

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A Tribute to My Readers....All of you are the INSPIRATION for me to write!!!

Today instead of writing a traditional post I want to talk to you people and THANK YOU so much for coming and visiting my blog. It is really a nice and special feeling at times though I am not able to post but still I am amazed to see the stats that how regularly you guys visit my blog to know about any of my new writings.

I am so humbled and so much THANKFUL to all my readers for reading even a single line out of my blog. I hope you will keep on visiting and keep up my spirit high.

Education: a sarcastic trauma in Pakistan

Its truly an irony that in Pakistan lack of opportunities in the job market is eradicating the and crushing the dreams of the highly educated youth in the country. It doesn't matter even if you hold a higher education degree in contemporary subjects with a great score. It doesn't help as once the students with lots of dreams enter the job market they realize that their passions and ambitions are vague as no opportunity on pure merit basis will hold their hands.

I now suspect that there is always a raised slogan that we need educated citizens and education needs to be improvised. But why they want to increase education rate and literacy when the educated ones have to be crushed under the bizarre title of unemployment.

Distribution of thousands of resumes take place but the terrible truth is that even acquiring of job has to be done through the so called hypocrite term of references and networking. What are you giving to the society? Selling jobs under the cover with the credit card of references.

Its really an annoying element when you see so much educated and bright people living jobless due to the trauma of a spoiled job market where jobs are acquired as equivalent to transactions that take place in black market. Who see your skills, knowledge and learning? So do you think with this actual bitter scenario is it worthy to keep on increasing the stream of education and later let them drown in disappointment.

I just now smile sarcastically when I hear on TV or NEWS that the government is trying to raise the education rate. The education rate increase is offset later when the educated individuals face the bitter reality and then they are are patted on their backs with comments like its practical life.

Malala who has won a Nobel Prize is claimed to be a role model for enlightening education but I have a question is it really justice to open minds with the spark of education first and then letting them to burn under the disguise of UNEMPLOYMENT?

If any one has an answer do let me know!!!!

Sadness of Soul

A day of betray in a human life. Life when is in the chain of sadness surrounded by opportunities just to plunge in deep world of thoughts. World of thoughts is an interesting world in which everything can happen which seems impossible in the materialistic world. When nothing stays in the path of life to accompany then the passenger of life becomes indifferent about everything. A human being becomes sad when the external dilemmas of circumstances make him a resident of a similar stagnant place.

A saddened and isolated soul keeps on circulating around the same paths. Familiar faces are becoming stranger everyday and inner echoes are changing into shouts. The time is passing but the fate is not changing for better. Trapped in the same cage of misfortunes disguised as destiny is the most painful feeling in the world.  

Changing AD Culture In Pakistani Media: Who is Responsible?

It's a spark, a quest, a confusion or a never ending road. What is infront of the path when every other side is blocked. Moving on is the only choice left. The question is where to move on and how to move on when the surrounding condition will not change. Yes living in a biased society is just to walk blindly with sides blocked and the path is not even smooth. Hard work rendered by citizens goes unrewarded when the few rupees earned will be swallowed by more wider needs of a humanly body survival.

Especially when it is evident that the basic needs of a human life are the deficiencies in the country then other less prioritized wants just appears to be a luxury. More than half of the country lives in poverty but nobody wants to even talk about their miseries. Open up the TV channels what advertisements are on air and these ADs are just injecting something in the society which are not just in contrary according to the cultural and ethical aspects but the advertised commodities are just a luxury product.

High tech products are shown making a family life happier. Its hard to identify the marketing mix of such advertising when they know that they are selling in a country where people's purchasing power is less then what they try to portray through their ads that by indulging in such high involvement purchases there life will become glorious. Every AD is directed towards showing a life style that can only be gained through purchase of the xyz product. How ironic is that being at the opposite degree of reality you are offering something which major chunk of the population cannot buy. So the only consequences is that Fine you are putting up such ADs on TV but the purchasing power of the potential customers is not adequate which will not end up in purchasing but it will leave a more feeling of deprivation.

As far the ethical and moral norms are concerned they are already crossed in commercials. So what the viewers can do except to watch some immoral content while sitting with their family but why would TV channels care about the social grooming of the society as they just seem to be concern with PROFITS.

Its not just the responsibility of the Ad makers to follow some ethical guidelines while creating their ad but the medium who are displaying these ads needs to show some responsibility for not displaying such ads. TV is a source of teaching the society so what are they teaching?

Its really an ironic phenomena that when such TV channels through their heated discussion alarm the viewers about so many social evils then what about that social evil in which they themselves are involved. Aren't they hypocrites? On one hand they claim that they making the viewers aware of the problems while on the other hand engaging them to view such Ads.

The trickle down effect can be obvious that with having daily stimuli of such exposures the behaviors automatically tilt towards them consciously or unconsciously. So who has to step back the ad makers or the TV channels? It is the duty of the regulating bodies like PEMRA to devise guidelines and all related entities associated with PEMRA needs to align with those guidelines. Without a proper policy and monitoring no betterment can yield.

Expectations....Give a Tough Time

Doom

Its a hard world to live but human emotions are a mechanism that keeps on changing. Sad and depressed along with the feeling that the future is totally uncertain makes the heart encircled in doom.

She is Re-Reading Memories........

Life is full of so many phases! No she would call them pages. The interesting thing is that each page is different and each page locks in itself some joys, some tears, some hopes, few dreams and a little flame of hope. What was last year? No what was last year of the last year? So many last years have passed and she is standing where she herself is surprised. At every step of her life she always used to ask what is next. So there was always something for her to involve in and cherish the journey of learning!!!

So where is she standing right now? Well the answer can be simple but that level of simplicity is very difficult for everyone to understand even for her own innocent soul. That’s fine she has completed the post-graduation too which can be the highest level of education for a female in her country. Looking back at the years what she used to be? An extremely passionate person holding a desire of acquiring knowledge and she enjoyed studies as anyone would be having a jar of Nutella but now her jar of Nutella (studies) have finished.

So now she is looking forward that what hold for her! She knows every step of life is gift from Allah but why is she feeling that she has left behind the most glorious pages of life. She rereads those pages often but she knows how long will she rereading the same pages which are memories now! So she has to be a little practical which she is not exactly and instead of looking backward have to look forward!!!

But when she looks forward why her eyes become covered with misty fog and the vision becomes blur as what in her mind has been conceptualized as her fairy tale future. Now stepping in the real practical world she will know what is there actually for her!!!

Even you know she questioned alot and curiosity is her passion and  even she has stopped questioning the society, sitting at home thinking about life and she like every girl next door started listening to sad songs but now she has to realize and start thinking that why is she trapping herself !!!

May everyone living a life that they deserve and be a source of inspiration for all others. Love yourself and love your live!!!

Why can't you get a job? Most hypocrite arena in the economy of Pakistan

Why it's like that? To follow your dreams is interrupted by the hypocrites. The thing is that when jobs are not granted on merit then how can it be expected that human resource in Pakistan will earn their livings with dignity. The government slogan remains high promising for raising education in the country but what is next when after acquiring education the professional degree becomes a piece of paper useless. The purpose in Pakistan should not be that number of graduates increases each year but something needs to be done to offer them a bright future.

The tragic number of so called reference jobs are increasing making impossible for people from less influential backgrounds to acquire jobs solely based on their talent. How unfortunate we as a nation is that talent goes unrewarded as all rewards goes to the certain part of the society. How can poverty curb and how can equality prevail when nothing is provided on merit.

It's a very disappointing fact when degrees of qualified youth just becomes a piece of paper as they cannot make them eligible to qualify in the gambling of job market where instead of talents opportunities are provided to the one with the highest reference power.